Friday, November 19, 2010

THE SECRETS TO SUCCESS: Why some are successful and why others are not!

Hello friends it's always a pleasure to hear from you guys I really do enjoy posting on this blog and thanks for your comments and contributions! It's a lovely day and we're goona really enjoy ourselves this time, infact, everyday is a good day!

The last statement above should be our lifestyle! You should have a strong positive outlook to life! That I've come to discover is the secret to success! Success really starts from the mind! I've been doing lots of reading lately and all the books, I mean every single one of them, usually start with a statement like this: "you've got to change your thinking in other to change your life!", " your thoughts create your reality", I mean every single one of them usually say this! I think that is very profound.

Throughout history, all great leaders,philosophers and scientists have always agreed on this singular subject of the power of our thoughts on the outcomes we produce in our lives! In other words, thoughts becomes things! What you focus on grows and eventually materializes in your life! whether good or bad! This may sound shocking but it's the absolute truth! What you focus on most of the time would eventually come to pass in your life! It's only a matter of time, where it be positive or negative!

So really, the secret to success is in this little statement : you become what you think about most of the time! I repeat again for emphasis, "your thoughts becomes things!". So, I enjoin you to do this henceforth, change your thinking pattern for the better, have a positive outlook on life. One of the great life coaches we have around today, Art Williams, said "life would give you what you demand of it!" You would get what you deserve not just what you wish! Hmmm... I think that is very powerful! Please ponder on this statement, and I'll see you in the next post! Enjoy!

Selah!

Recommended Reading: The Law of Attraction (Moni Arora,The Strangest Secret in the World (Earl Nightingale)

Friday, November 5, 2010

10 VALUES OF A TRUE NIGERIAN: Rebirth of a New Nigeria (Part 2)

Hi there, it's good to be back on these series on "Inspiring Moments with John Obuku", I really hope that these series have been a source of blessing to you and your family for the past few months, it has surely been for me. Please keep on sending in your calls,texts messages and contributions, they are all invaluable to the progress of this blog. Thanks once more.

Below are the remaining half of the 10 values of a true Nigerian, given by Fela Durotoye, please enjoy!:
6) Value Time.
Time is life,money and the currency of the world. Everything in the world gravitates towards the use of time. If you don't value my time, you won't value my wisdom.

7) Care And Show Respect.
Respect is reciprocal, what you give out, the same measure you'll be given again. Let there be mutual respect for both the young and old, one day you'll needing either of them!

8) Consciously Build a Great Legacy.
Live life with the conscious act of making a great impact to your direct sphere of influence. Be a positive change agent. What would you be known for? What are you known for? What is your legacy for your children,community and country?

9) Live A Life of Integrity And Honour.
Your yes should be yes, even if it means displeasing yourself to honour others, do it! It gives you honour and high esteem amongst your peers and those connected to you.

10) Make Your Family, Your Nation and Your Continent and Your God Proud.
Your life should be lived in such a way that it brings glory to your family,nation,continent and God. These groups should look at you and say "yes this is our son, in whom we are well please!".

Wow! That was some mind-blowing stuff over there, please go through the whole ten again, and endeavour you build your life on these principles and truly our Nation Nigeria would turn out to be " the most desirable nation to live in by the year 2025", God bless y'all.

Take Charge!

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

10 VALUES OF A TRUE NIGERIAN: Rebirth of a New Nigeria!

Hello friends, it's always a pleasure to come on the net to discuss on this our very wonderful forum "Inspiring Moments with John Obuku", and I'm so so glad you're over there reading this post! You are very very important to me!

Now, for those of you, who have been following me on this blog,you'll know that one of my mentors in life is FD,Fela Durotoye,and I read something on FaceBook today which he posted and I'll love to share it with y'all, infact, he expressly gave the go-ahead to "Live It,Spread It!", so am just obeying to voice of my mentor! Please enjoy!

There are 10 Values according to our most sought after international motivational speaker, Fela Durotoye,of a true Nigerian ( I added notes for emphasis sake ); They are:
1) Make A Positive Impact
You've got to be a positive influence to your environment. You are specially modeled and packaged for your family,community,tribe,state,country,continent and the world!

2) Be A Solution Provider
The pen has its use, the computer,phone,car etc all have their uses! You are custom-made and sent into this world to provide a solution to a specific challenge and problem.

3) Be A Role Model
You are supposed to be a person of influence and power, to whom other people look upto. You are an inspiration to someone somewhere, they look up to you to fulfill their full potential.

4) Be The Best In All You Do
Be committed to excellence, there's no one like you. Try,work and develop yourself to be among the top 10% of high performers in your field.

5) Do The Right Things At All Times
Whatever you do today will speak for you in the future. Your actions today are seeds for your results tomorrow! Do it right, once, always!

Wow! We still have 5 more to go, but I'll give them to you tomorrow! Please, work on the above, "Live it, Spread it!".

Selah!

Monday, October 25, 2010

THE REAL YOU: The King,Kingdom and His Royal Family!

Hello friends, I love it whenever we come here on "Inspiring Moments" and share some of our thoughts,its always fun! Please keep on sending your texts,calls,comments and contributions;they are invaluable to making this blog the most inspiring forum on the internet!

I want to tell you a story about yourself...yeah...you! The real you is actually a person from a Royal Family, this royal family rules the entire universe! I've finally come to realise the whole essense of life!...please stay with me...I know some on you'll be saying "John don come again!" but please be patient and stay with us on these series of the real you because,after we are through am so sure,you're gonna be very very happy you are alive and part of a big big plan by the King Himself!

The King is God, His Kingdom is heaven and mankind is His Royal Family! So you are actually a Prince and don't even know it, you're a Princess and you're not even living it! That's why seeking wealth should not be your primary pursuit in life! Seek His kingdom and all other things will be added to you! That's a quaranteed statement by the King Himself!

Wow! I really don't wanna rush this topic but believe me on this topic, I know what am talking about sir! You are royalty, a holy nation, you're a son & daughter of the King, and like in all royalties, the issue of wealth is not discussed or rather is a natural part of being a royalty, that's why you cannot afford to be poor! There are assets, houses,cars,companies and great corporation written in your name! They are yours, all things are yours ONLY if you can see them and actually change your thinking (Repent) and begin thinking like God wants you to!

This is very heavy...go over this again...I'll talk with you tomorow! Love y'all my brothers and sisters,fellow kingdom citizens!

Selah!

Recommended Reading/listening: Kingdom Principles,Re-discovering the Kingdom,The Most Important Person On Earth (Myles Munroe), What Did Jesus Preach? (John Obuku)

Thursday, October 21, 2010

THE REAL YOU: Re-discovering who you really are!

Hello friends, it's always my pleasure to come online and post on this very inspiring forum and share my thoughts of certain issues I find interesting and hope would also interest you. I wanna say thanks to y'all that have been sending your texts,comments and phone calls on how you've been blessed. I do not take them lightly! Thanks for believing in my dream! I am so so grateful!

Yeah!...everyday I see possibilities and the birthing of something great which would soon hit the market with such force that people won't know what hit them! Just watch out and stay on this blog with me. It promises to be a life-changing affair! In these series on "Inspiring Moments with John Obuku", I'll like to go a little spiritual on certain issues, because I've found that throughout history, the truly great men have a strong spiritual centre to which they draw strenght and inspirations.

My strength comes from Jehovah!, sorry to damage your theology or belief system, but hey...listen,listen, you cannot achieve long lasting success that transcends generation without having God on your side! Lets take a roll call on the anals of history, the world greats and legends almost everyone quotes in motivational circles have a very very strong link with God! Dale Carnegie, Henry Ford, Albert Einstein,Wright Brothers,Bill Gates,Jim Rohn,Les Brown,Myles Munroe,Sam Adeyemi,Bishop David Oyedepo,Bishop T.D. Jakes,Pastor Paul Adefarasin etc and the list go on...they all have God as the centre of their lives and strength.

The real you is captured in this very simple statement that many take for granted,you might even miss it when I mention very soon, and here is it: "you are a child of God!",that's it...does it make any meaning to you? I really hope it does... because buried in that simple statement is the whole essence of your life as a human being and it can actually propel you to the next level you are looking for!

We'll talk more on this in the next series on this particular topic.

Selah!

Recommended Reading: The Self-Discovery Pack-Audio CD (John Obuku)

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

MIND SET MAINTENANCE

Hello friends, hope you've really been blessed and being blessed every time we meet here on "Inspiring Moments", I have to confess that these series have really really changed my life for the better;everyday I see possibilities for a brighter tomorrow! This should be your outlook on life!

Yeah,today we are going to talk about something very very vital, something that actually determines how things turn out in your life. Today's topic is really the main determinant of your success in life! Hmmm...just hang on with me there...you may be saying, "Now John! You've really gone too far now!", but hold on friends, let me land. Your mind set determines who you are, what you do,how you dress, the friends you keep and where you are ultimately heading towards!

Honestly, I wish I could pick up a micro-phone and stand on the highest stage available to tell you and whoever cares to listen that " your mind set ultimately determines how you're gonna spend the rest of your life-whether in riches,joy,peace of mind,living your dreams or in penury,misery,heartbreak and not-living your dreams!".

According to America's most sought-after motivational speaker, Les Brown," you have to be hungry for success to be successful", he goes on to say that "what you feed your mind with everyday, every single, goes a long way to determine how successful you would eventually turn out to be in life". We'll talk more on this in the next blog!

But keep this is mind, the Good Book, the constitution of our Kingdom Country says, "as a man thinketh so is he". Henry Ford said "if you think you can, you are correct;if you think you can't then you are correct!". Keep winning the good life!

Recommended Reading: Live Your Dreams (Les Brown),What Drives Your Life-Audio CD & DVD (John Obuku)

Monday, October 18, 2010

LIVING AN EXCEPTIONAL LIFE

Hello friends, welcome to another time on "Inspiring Moments" and I pray on this particular discussion you would be really blessed and find a new reason to get out of bed every morning for the rest of your life.

I believe the reason people think and feel that life is boring is because of the lack of a sense of purpose- the lack of a reason for being,no drive and exciting things happening in their lives. So how can one become self-motivated and start the purpose-driven life? Hmmm...these are some of the things I would like to share in this blog post.

The issue of purpose is very vital to living an exceptional life, one has to get it straight and really have a clear picture and sense of direction on how he or she live everyday life. Purpose is the reason for being, the intent of the manufacturer that made him to produce the product. The discovery of your God-given purpose is the greatest thing that would ever happen to you,after salvation of your soul!

To lead an exceptional life, you've gotta have drive! What are the things that excites you? What are those things that gives you joy that you love doing? And is your daily life and work built around them? Hmmm...to really lead an exceptional life,your job have to be exciting to you!

Are you motivated enough? Do you have reason to wake up 3.00 am every morning to read,sing or write? I believe the reason why people leave the bed late is because they are not motivated enough, they don't have a goal they are passionately pursuing,don't have a burning passion to make any significant influence in their world! Find something that motivates you and getting up early won't be a challenge anymore.

Finally, to live a purpose-driven life, you need to go for knowledge! You need to be an addicted learner! You need to be an addicted reader! Go for rich knowledge! You surpass your peers if you are a serious student of the university of life that is knowledge-driven. Your personal library tells alot about who you are, so what collections of books do you have there?

Selah!

Recommended Reading: The Purpose-Driven Life (Rick Warren_